Exploring Multiple Orgasms for Men: A Path to Greater Intimacy and Pleasure
There are a lot of assumptions and misunderstandings about male sexuality, especially relating to pleasure. The concept of multiple orgasms for men is perhaps the most misunderstood and fascinating. Men are believed to be able to orgasm only once, followed by a long period of recovery time—but is this actually accurate?
Wielded by men, Tantra offers a means of dissociating ejaculation from orgasm, which, in turn, allows for multiple orgasms and a more vital, satisfying sexual experience. How exactly does Tantra guide men toward this potential, and what are the far-reaching blessings this teaching bestows upon intimacy, liberated pleasure, and self-consciousness?
Understanding Male Multiple Orgasms
Fable though it might seem—for many men, male multiple orgasms are quite possible. The reason is that orgasm and ejaculation are not the same thing.
In human beings, orgasm is an explosion of sensation—it begins with a wave of electricity that sweeps through the lower spine and the pelvis. At its height, this wave is a peak, a release of sensory intensity and tension. Tantra teaches how to control ejaculation in the moment of orgasm so that a man can “have his cake and eat it to”—he can enjoy the peak sensations of an orgasm without the physical exhaustion that often follows.
The Role of Energy
Tantra sees sexual energy as a powerful life force that can be captured and circulated. Rather than wasting this energy in ejaculation, men can learn to hold back, practicing multiple small releases for the same wave of pleasure and sharing this intense energy with themselves and their partner.
Misconceptions About Male Sexuality
The notion that men can’t make love again for a while after they’ve ejaculated is a myth—but it’s a myth only if ejaculation occurs. This is because ejaculation essentially releases the energy out of your body with the ejaculate. If orgasm and ejaculation are split apart, the refractory period is bypassed and you don’t lose energy, you increase energy. This also leads to a greater, more expanded orgasmic experience. Also referred to as “a full body orgasm”.
Energy Orgasms are said to have self healing properties while an overindulgence in ejaculation can lead to depletion and exhaustion.
And if a man learns to have energy orgasms, he will be able to stay aroused much longer which leads to a deepened intimacy in his love making with his partner.
Tantra’s Approach to Male Multiple Orgasms
Tantra offers techniques for men to develop multiple orgasms, all of which involve energy awareness, breathwork and true grounding in the body.
Breathwork
Tantra emphasizes a form of conscious breathing: deep, connected, abdominal breathing helps men to become aware and comfortable with their arousal levels and keep a calm center when stimulated. In Tantra we use specific breathing techniques to guide the energy ignited in your pelvis upwards the spine, essentially traveling through your chakras (energy centers) This, in turn also helps to delay ejaculation, ideally until a chosen point in time. Some people actually choose to not ejaculate at all or not all the time, once they discover their ability to have energy orgasms.
Muscle Control
Pelvic floor exercises, particularly Kegel exercises designed to strengthen the pubococcygeus muscles (PC muscles) around the penis, provide a crucial foundation for learning to ejaculate without orgasm.
Developing your PC muscles will give you greater control over your physical responses, enabling you to experience longer burning orgasms and repeated orgasms without ejaculation.
Benefits of Multiple Orgasms for Men
Learning to have multiple orgasms not only makes physical pleasure easier to achieve but also has profound positive effects on emotional intimacy, confidence, and sexual well-being.
- Improved Pleasure: More constant contact and multiple orgasmic waves intensify the pleasure.
- Increased Intimacy: Learning to move and share energy increases emotional and physical intimacy.
- Better Sexual Health: Control over arousal and ejaculation decreases performance anxiety and increases confidence, encouraging a more leisurely and pleasurable sexual life.
Waves Tantra’s Guidance for Men
At Waves Tantra, men are initiated into the possibility of multiple orgasms in a gender-neutral atmosphere free of shame. The sessions with Leela, a certified Tantra therapist, are tailored to each individual based on their needs, intentions and comfort level.
What to Expect
- Patient Techniques: Learn pelvic floor muscle exercises, breath techniques, and energy circulation to assist in reaching multiple climaxes.
- Safe Space: Waves Tantra provides an environment where you can explore sexuality and energy without judgment, fear, or embarrassment.
- Holistic Growth: Sessions focus on both physical techniques and emotional and spiritual growth, helping men become more deeply connected to themselves and their partners.
Practical Tips for Getting Started
If you’re interested in exploring multiple orgasms, here are some tips to help you get started:
- Slow Down: Take it easy, especially in the beginning.
- Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to the signals your body sends and what it needs.
- Breathe Deeply: Slow, deep breaths can calm your mind and help to feel grounded and confident in a state of arousal.
- Pelvic Floor Exercises: Practice Kegel exercises to build the muscles needed for ejaculatory control.
- Mindfulness: Dedicate time to tuning into your body and energy, either through meditation or in solitude.
Make Your Dream a Reality
Multiple orgasms aren’t just mythical for men—they are an achievable reality. When practiced correctly, they can generate profound intimacy, create new flavors of pleasure for both partners, and boost self-awareness.
Waves Tantra is here to assist you in opening up to your full potential and experiencing a deeper connection with yourself and your partner.
Ready to journey into this incredible realm? Book a session to explore the infinite possibilities of Tantra.